Tribe.net. Local Connections D http://gemini-and-scorpio.tribe.net/thread/c18bd490-fe0d-4e9e-8341-39aa16fc8e1b#ffa2e9e1-fb06-4376-9f2f-4101153934f2 2009-12-26T22:00:06Z 2009-12-26T22:00:06Z

What do you mean by dating? Are you guys a couple? Tell me where you guys stand relationship wise in a very precise manner please. This is an intriguing post.

D 2009-12-26T22:00:06Z D http://gemini-and-scorpio.tribe.net/thread/c18bd490-fe0d-4e9e-8341-39aa16fc8e1b#27bf0fea-68db-41e6-8979-e8a02aea7a86 2009-12-26T21:39:53Z 2009-12-26T21:39:53Z

Oh lordy...I totally went off answering a whole other question. Here we go: 1.-How fast do you want to move sexually when you are attracted to someone? Do you crave sexual encounters? 2.-How do you feel after you have become "intimate" with someone?Pt.2 Do you become emotionally attached? 3.-How do you view/ feel about sex? Answers 1.- Many times very fast, many times slow, many times I wont move at all. Yes, Gemini craves sexual encounters all the times. 2.- After becoming intimate Geminis feel very liberated and open. A strong sense of friendship and romanticism emerges. Pt.2 Always. Attached but still free. Meaning, there is awareness that it is all still in the mind but there is also the possibility of feeling sad If much time was invested in fantasizing and idealizing the passion and the realization surfaces that things can not be possible for some reason. But the sense of freedom is not lost with the sense of attachment. 3.-Sex of the mind, emotions, and soul is what we always desire. Putting the emotions in the act is not the most comfortable things many times...but they are ALWAYS there when we dream about it. Sex is great. Always. Geminis like sex every day and mostly more than once. Blowjobs here and there, a fast and furious quickie here and there, and always the main event at some point of the day. Mental stimulation comes close 2nd to having a girl drop on her knees out of the blue ready to start sucking. Pardon the crassness if it offends anybody, which I highly doubt. Sex is viewed in many ways, romantic, adventurous, sensuous, sexual, just for the heck of it, relaxing, etc etc.

D 2009-12-26T21:39:53Z D http://gemini-and-scorpio.tribe.net/thread/c18bd490-fe0d-4e9e-8341-39aa16fc8e1b#c89f6dcc-6edc-4459-b67c-f3972f05f3a6 2009-12-26T21:13:13Z 2009-12-26T21:13:13Z

Regardless of all inner planet placements...All Geminis are precocious, kinky, and dont ever get sex off their mind. What really needs to be done is fuel their imagination either totally direct or subtlety. They are adepts at both. By direct I mean some straight up kinky dirty references. Something like I shaved my vagina today. Boy that fuels the imagination, rapport, and conversation for at least 5 minutes. Being smart is ooooobviously a plus! But that is not all that is going to get you laid. As long as you don't hinder his ability to think freely then it is all good. Use much sexual references and innuendos verbally and with your body. Innuendos and sexual body language is alway great through all conversations...even if it is about horses and wolves. If you make him feel like he is being forced to give you a certain type of response...he will feel a slight....uuughhh...inside of him. Its that kind of thing like when you bf is next to you talking to a friend and says...oh me and her are going to the mall tomorrow. And you are like WTF, because he hadn't even consulted with you about it. But dont get me wrong, if you touch yourself at the right spots and do the leg opening and closing here and there...and perhaps a little suck on the whiskey straw while you guys talk, or an oopsy i just dropped the pool ball let me bend over while you totally look at my ass while I pretend I had no idea would definitely keep this guy with an over exited brain....down there. Let me know. Oh....if you feel confortable, squeeze his butt out of no where.

D 2009-12-26T21:13:13Z Oba http://gemini-and-scorpio.tribe.net/thread/c18bd490-fe0d-4e9e-8341-39aa16fc8e1b#ca704847-3bb2-49d2-9d8e-c75c9351d0ef 2009-02-22T16:48:47Z 2009-02-22T16:48:47Z

> I figure if someone doesn't contact you in 4 days if you notice they dont answer the phone, dont leave any msg (thats my rule)

Oba 2009-02-22T16:48:47Z Jen http://gemini-and-scorpio.tribe.net/thread/c18bd490-fe0d-4e9e-8341-39aa16fc8e1b#c6cfc5ab-b02a-4e85-a32c-eeb37542a8e3 2009-02-22T08:07:38Z 2009-02-22T08:07:38Z

Yeah it's all cool - I figure if someone doesn't contact you in 4 days by any means, then they are not interested. I like to know i'm goin somewhere with things! Meh. Thanks all for your stellar comments :)

Jen 2009-02-22T08:07:38Z Oba http://gemini-and-scorpio.tribe.net/thread/c18bd490-fe0d-4e9e-8341-39aa16fc8e1b#25ad2f07-b8a6-4c01-a63d-2386519fea67 2009-02-21T12:47:34Z 2009-02-21T12:47:34Z

> I think I'm going to end things- this is getting too confusing is hard to catch the air with the hands .... maybe you should try sailing his wind with a bit of indiference > this is getting too confusing Gem's reality is always "mentaly and emotionally shifting" ... in most cases (there are exceptions) is not the place for a Scorpio to get "grounded" or "too deep" with them is like going to the beach and hanging out socially with people .... most are not into deep ocean diving .... i.e. most wont go with you too deep anyplace

Oba 2009-02-21T12:47:34Z ~Renevatio~ http://gemini-and-scorpio.tribe.net/thread/c18bd490-fe0d-4e9e-8341-39aa16fc8e1b#3b2f5547-9a7f-49a9-8438-b9237e7aca3f 2009-02-21T05:06:52Z 2009-02-21T05:06:52Z

*Raises hand* Oh, wait, you're in Canada...and 23, lol. Oh well...

~Renevatio~ 2009-02-21T05:06:52Z Scott http://gemini-and-scorpio.tribe.net/thread/c18bd490-fe0d-4e9e-8341-39aa16fc8e1b#0aff9df4-f8b8-4f21-b0a5-12d71500410d 2009-02-21T00:58:19Z 2009-02-21T00:58:19Z

Hey Jen, Your Sun and his Sun are square but that's not really bad and can actually add excitement. Personally, I'm a Gemini Sun and the two longest and most significant relationships of my life were with Virgos (I have a stellium in Virgo)...anyway, I think the thing that is blocking you guys from really connecting is the Square between your Sun and his Moon--that's a tuff one to get past in a relationship between between a man and a woman, and your Moon to his Sun isn't very compatible either Also your moons aren't in very good aspect to each other. The Moon to Moon, Sun to Moon and a woman's Venus to a man's Mars are pretty important if you're looking for fireworks or anything that will stand the test of time. There really isn't any big positives in those aspects between the two of you. There's a Sextile between his Venus and your Mars and that's nice but a lesser connection. I think it's probably the possible Grand Water Trine between you guys that is keeping you interested, and compared to what you have in your Chart if he is Virgo or Pisces rising that could be important too. As far as him not wanting to talk too much or seem very interested in you, I don't get that because you're smoking hot--He's either really shy and/or intimidated by you or maybe he's one of those guys that's into power games and gets his kicks by having you pursue him. Either way, it sounds like you've let him know you're interested in him--if he doesn't reciprocate and start showing some real interest in you it's his loss. I think you have the right idea about leaving the ball in his court ;) Good Luck

Scott 2009-02-21T00:58:19Z Jen http://gemini-and-scorpio.tribe.net/thread/c18bd490-fe0d-4e9e-8341-39aa16fc8e1b#bfb95b8c-9b35-4e18-9780-b325ac3eb393 2009-02-20T17:11:26Z 2009-02-20T17:11:26Z

Don't worry! I could never go hatin a Gem. My best friends and my dad are Gem! lol. In fact, most of my friends are Geminis... :) Anyways, I don't have his exact birth time. Don't want to ask and go freaking him out just yet! (maybe I should). I have a strong feeling his ASC is either Virgo or Pisces. Anything else would surprise me. His planets in cancer (as far as I know from my ephemeris) are Mercury and Mars. His Venus is in Taurus and His sun and moon are Gemini. The rest of his outer planets are just like mine. Well, we have great physical chemistry, but I think thats all. He's just lacking the excitement that comes with seeing someone new... you know? I need that enthusiasm! I mean just the other day, I called him to see how he was doing, to get to know him better, and he told me he had to go and study for a test... that he has in June. Yeah. I can understand taking an LSAT test is important, but comon dude, give me at least 10 minutes of your time! I think he said he was sorry.... but still. Really? I mean, I called when he said would be the best time to talk for him. I feel like I'm on some kind of weird schedule. I know Gemini's are stereotyped as being talkative, but this guy doesn't seem to like to talk. I mean I get nervous sometimes when I meet someone new, but my emails and such and all that crazy stuff I send him, I feel, make up for my lack of talking, and show a bit of what I'm interested in. I get three word sentences for him. So I don't think he's into me. We'll see if he calls me. If he doesn't respond in the next day or two... bye! And I'm onto my next lovely Gemini :P

Jen 2009-02-20T17:11:26Z Lazee River http://gemini-and-scorpio.tribe.net/thread/c18bd490-fe0d-4e9e-8341-39aa16fc8e1b#d3bdb62a-9519-4e80-b076-7efec5601800 2009-02-20T13:27:41Z 2009-02-20T13:27:41Z

Sorry: "quiet", not "quite"!

Lazee River 2009-02-20T13:27:41Z Scott http://gemini-and-scorpio.tribe.net/thread/c18bd490-fe0d-4e9e-8341-39aa16fc8e1b#dab8ea9d-32e5-429e-9987-4c892941156c 2009-02-20T06:37:38Z 2009-02-20T06:37:38Z

Jen, Don't go hatin' Geminis :) If you can, post this guys Chart. What planets does he have Cancer? How do they aspect with your planets? The strong Cancerian influence is probably what's making him appear moody, quiet , slow and/or just wanting to crawl off into his protective shell. Cancers are a different breed, but you have Pisces Rising and a Scorpio Moon so you guys together form a Grand Water Trine.

Scott 2009-02-20T06:37:38Z Lazee River http://gemini-and-scorpio.tribe.net/thread/c18bd490-fe0d-4e9e-8341-39aa16fc8e1b#caf8d809-f064-4f32-8b7e-5ceacc0adc12 2009-02-20T00:47:01Z 2009-02-20T00:47:01Z

I was once a very quite Gemini, at least around strangers and love interests. It's because I had low self-esteem and was petrified that anything I said might turn the other person off. My experience of being a shy Gemini is that it's a miserable situation not suited to our true personalities. I really don't know any quite Geminis. I think you might want to explore Cancerian traits more to get to the bottom of his behavior.

Lazee River 2009-02-20T00:47:01Z Jen http://gemini-and-scorpio.tribe.net/thread/c18bd490-fe0d-4e9e-8341-39aa16fc8e1b#a2101b1f-3476-40f0-b54a-75010e015262 2009-02-19T23:31:06Z 2009-02-19T23:31:06Z

This is so strange- Every time I try to start an intellectual conversation, bring up something exciting and new, or basically try some shock value approach, I get a sub par response from this double gemini. Yes - double gemini. I can do this with basically anyone else. I need the same sort of mental stimulation or else I get a lil antsy and want to leave... or go looking somehwere else. I love sex, and yes, need it to feel satisfied in any relationship, but I just find it weird that he's so...slow. Check this out- this guy barely even talks. Wtf? Haved you ever heard of a quiet Gemini? I think I'm going to end things- this is getting too confusing.

Jen 2009-02-19T23:31:06Z Lazee River http://gemini-and-scorpio.tribe.net/thread/c18bd490-fe0d-4e9e-8341-39aa16fc8e1b#7a0d8698-013d-4ad4-92d5-db27b38c25ef 2009-02-19T14:01:41Z 2009-02-19T14:01:41Z

Agreed! I think men are sexy who are clever, intelligent, original, and keep me mentally stimulated. I look for a man with a hot mind, not a hot body. But, the irony is that they need to be sensual, not metal, in bed. I think that seeking a combo of intelligence and sensuality is what makes many Geminis (at least the ones I know) become fascinated with water signs.

Lazee River 2009-02-19T14:01:41Z Scott http://gemini-and-scorpio.tribe.net/thread/c18bd490-fe0d-4e9e-8341-39aa16fc8e1b#665015ab-b813-4b1a-92ab-6f2ccbddf4ab 2009-02-19T01:45:46Z 2009-02-19T01:45:46Z

I think you'd really have to look at more than just the Sun sign but there are some general Gemini traits. Personally I'm a Gemini Sun with a Leo Moon, Sagittarius Rising, Taurus Venus and Sag. Mars. Most Geminis can be as charming as they need to be to get what we want, but if we're really interested in seriously being with someone mental stimulation is both essential and incredibly arousing, and a must have if the relationship is to endure. I've dated some women that were incredibly attractive physically but who weren't really original thinkers who could keep me on my toes mentally ...and eventually that becomes a turnoff. We want a partner who can challenge us mentally. If you actually want to keep a Gemini the old saying of 'get in their head before you get in their bed' really applies ;)

Scott 2009-02-19T01:45:46Z Lazee River http://gemini-and-scorpio.tribe.net/thread/c18bd490-fe0d-4e9e-8341-39aa16fc8e1b#1944bdf4-9d50-43fe-a779-d441bf670816 2009-02-17T22:43:26Z 2009-02-17T22:43:26Z

Okay, I'll go first! I'm a Gemini sun. I have traditionally moved faster than lightning when I have liked somebody. I have to make a very strong effort if I want to slow things down. My Gemini girlfriends do the same. I think it may be because our minds are always racing along ahead of us, and by the time the object of our affections gets a clue that we are interested we've already "had" him over and over in our vivid imaginations anyway. If I really like someone, I become emotionally attached right away after intimacy. If I don't really like him, I have no emotions other than plenty of guilt. I crave sexual encounters, but companionship and friendship with my partner is more important than sexual compatability. Sex to me is way too much in my head, so I'm not really satisfied with a lover unless he can bring me out of that. That usually means he has to be overwhelmingly sensual rather than "heady". Hope this helps, although a guy's perspective would probably be more useful, I guess.

Lazee River 2009-02-17T22:43:26Z Jen http://gemini-and-scorpio.tribe.net/thread/c18bd490-fe0d-4e9e-8341-39aa16fc8e1b#9a2b06b1-2298-441d-be1e-dd5b64f83f85 2009-02-17T18:48:01Z 2009-02-17T18:48:01Z

Hey! I'm a scorpio moon, dating a double gemini with plenty of cancer in him. I was wondering, How fast do you want to move sexually when you are attracted to someone? Do you crave sexual encounters? How do you feel after you have become "intimate" with someone? Do you become emotionally attached? How do you view/ feel about sex?

Jen 2009-02-17T18:48:01Z