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What is it about scorpio men and their constant digging about the past? I'm a gem and I've never ever dated a guy like my current scorp before who wanted so many details about my past relationships. What's with the line of questionning? I feel like I've undergone The Spanish Inquisition....
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Re: Scorpios and their endless questions....
Wed, September 23, 2009 - 5:30 AMThe Scorpio sign is all about getting to the bottom of mysteries. This applies to everything, so you are not being singled out for the inquisition. I'm a Gem married to a Scorp. I just now asked him why your man would be questioning you this much. He said to tell you that he has no idea why Scorps do this, but that it's going to be that way and you might as well go ahead and get used to it. I can offer you some advice based on experience, though: DO NOT tell him the details of your past love life! Fine to say who you dated, but leave lots to the imagination. You can also leave out any details about how crazy you were for your past lover. He will NEVER forget anything you say about past loves, and will bring it up later when he's feeling insecure.....which will be often. -
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Re: Scorpios and their endless questions....
Fri, September 25, 2009 - 2:06 PMThanks for that. Yes, I intuitively knew that because he's really pressing for details about exactly how much I loved or didn't love some of the people I dated. And when I think he wasn't listening, he can remember the exact details of what I said months later!! Yes, I'm trying to be "vague" but it doesn't really work with him. -
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Sat, September 26, 2009 - 12:25 PMIt can really be an impossible situation! Divulging everything will lead to jealousy, but if you are holding something back, he will notice that you are, and that can lead to jealousy, too. I made a point of telling my husband that my exes were all very weird, thinking that would make him feel better. Instead, he now worries that he's not weird enough for me! Aarrgh! -
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Re: Scorpios and their endless questions....
Mon, September 28, 2009 - 3:26 PMI hear you, Lazee River!!
Here's the latest....
So, on Sat. my boyfriend and I went to two parties and he got to meet three of my best girlfriends. I've told him that two of them are still pretty wild, and that's why I don't hang out with them as often anymore. I've travelled around the world with one of them. He's asked me how many men I slept with when I travelled. I said, "none".
His plan was to get me really drunk, then ask me again, "how many?". Again, I said, "none." He said, "well, I asked your girlfriend and she said 'two'" I said, "well, she's lying. It's none....she probably thinks it was two, but it wasn't. It was zero"
again, I'm having this conversation while being seriously drunk, but I can at least keep my wits about me enough to answer correctly. It's like a game with him. He thinks he can catch me lying by getting me drunk or distracted, but I just keep answering the same thing again and again. Strange games these scorps play. -
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Re: Scorpios and their endless questions....
Mon, September 28, 2009 - 6:52 PMIt called interrogation, Petite. Just finished a round with my dad. It's pitiful. -
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Mon, September 28, 2009 - 9:14 PMIt's maddening! I think he thinks that if he keeps asking me a hundred different ways that one day I'll break down and change my answer!! -
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Re: Scorpios and their endless questions....
Tue, September 29, 2009 - 5:28 AMMy Scorp intuits everything about everyone everywhere. But, when it comes to someone he is in love with, his wires get scrambled and his radar is off. His insecurity makes him wonder if I'm being unfaithful, and he thinks he's picking up on things that actually aren't happening (I am completely faithful and always have been). Because of his razor sharp intuition and observation skills, he thinks these things are true when they aren't, simply because he has always been right about other people. Has to interrogate constantly because being so emotionally close to me has thrown him off and confused him. His intuition and his insecurity are all mixed up. Maybe that's why other Scorps become interrogators.
Also, I think maybe there is something in a Gemini personality that causes Scorps to think we are not the most reliable characters when it comes to faithfulness. It's just an attitude that they can sense. I personally have really open ideas about sexuality and don't necessarily think that multiple relationships at once are a bad thing. In THEORY. I would never hurt my partner by cheating. I think the open attitude is what he picks up on, though, and what keeps him nervous. -
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Re: Scorpios and their endless questions....
Tue, September 29, 2009 - 10:40 AM"Because of his razor sharp intuition and observation skills, he thinks these things are true when they aren't, simply because he has always been right about other people."
You know that its hypocritical right? :P -
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Re: Scorpios and their endless questions....
Wed, September 30, 2009 - 5:44 AMOh...shoot...it appears my brain must be on holiday again. Can you explain why it's hypocritical? I'm not getting it. -
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Re: Scorpios and their endless questions....
Wed, September 30, 2009 - 3:37 PMNot you, but your bf. How can he possess razor sharp intuition when the thing he believes it is true does not exist in the first place ? O.o -
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Re: Scorpios and their endless questions....
Wed, September 30, 2009 - 10:37 PMI think that scorps think that we geminis are too open and liberal with our sexuality. I know my scorp has accused me of being way too liberal, but actually, when it comes to him, I'm fiercely faithful. Maybe it's the taurus in me, but I'd never cheat. I've been cheated on and I know that it's the worst pain in the world to inflict on someone intentionally.
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