It is because some of you scorpios have not learned yet how to control your ...lets say emotional outbursts, and we knowing this can't commit to such unstable behavior. The irony of it all is that you think we are just as unstable as you. And we are just in a different way. It's not that we don't want to give in, we desperately do, it's just not in our nature. We don't want to be put in a cage. We have to be free to fly. In my experience all the scorpio men I have dated freak out when I need time alone, just some personal time....meditation time. And then they feel abandoned and then they sting. It has been a pattern with all of my scorpio friends, and lovers.
I think we desperately want to understand each other and just don't know how. It also seems that we communicate in a very differnt way and words get lost in translation. On the other hand our physical and soul connection is so powerful, magnetic really, which is what draws us to each other in the first place.